Dealing With Discouragement

Don't let frustration keep you down.

© Paula Kirman

Peace March on March 17, 07, Paula Kirman

Many a peace activist has dropped out of the movement because of what they perceive as lack of impact. Here are ways to avoid burnout and frustration.

"Wanda" (not her real name) has been an activist all her life. She protested against the Vietnam War in the 1960's. She attended rallies and marches for nuclear disarmament in the 1970's. She faithfully attended peace event planning coalition meetings, as well as marches and rallies for other global concerns.

However, more recently, Wanda has dropped out of sight.

When asked why she is no longer participating in peace making activities, Wanda shrugs her shoulders, then runs her hand through her greying mop of hair. "I have spent so much time and energy on these causes," she explains. "First it was Vietnam. Then nuclear disarmament. Then a host of other things. But look at the world today -- nothing has changed. War is still going on."

Then, came the remark that was the clincher. "I feel as if I have had absolutely no impact whatsoever."

This came from the mouth of a woman who had dedicated her life to peace. She was defeated, and burned out. Wanda is not the only person to grow frustrated with the peace movement. After all, it can be disheartening when war rages on despite the protests and rallies. However, quitting and giving up altogether, packing up the signs and banners and going home, is not the answer.

Rallies and marches are tangible ways in which people express their feelings to the government. Not taking part can be seen as silent complacency. From the history books of World War II, we should know that being complacent is simply not acceptable. It sends the wrong message to the government, and to the younger generation. Don't sit and be silent. Get up and act.

Being active with a peace coalition is also an excellent way to brainstorm and exchange ideas with like-minded people. Having no connection with other peace makers is the surest way to weaken the movement. Peace activists are often marginalized as hippies, as unpatriotic, or simply as freaks. We need to commiserate with each other.

Look at what peace marches have accomplished in the past. A major reason why Canada did not join the United States in the invasion of Iraq, is because of the huge public protests that took place when the Liberal government was in power. Never underestimate the ability to effect change.

But when change is not so forthcoming, don't let it get you down. Focus on the present, and on the positive. Perhaps there are people who you helped gain a perspective on peace. Maybe you orchestrated an excellent turnout to the event you planned.

Don't forget to spend time away from the movement doing things you enjoy. Getting too wrapped up in anything, even something as beneficial as peace making, is unhealthy. We need to have balanced lives.

So try to stay focussed on peace without losing focus on yourself. That way, you can avoid burnout and discouragement.


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